Sex and gender in Saudi Arabia part 2 (desperation)

Good day my dear reader whoever you are,

Do excuse me if i merely focus on homosexuality in Saudi Arabia on this post it has been a rather busy week for me and the time i have for writing currently is slim but i will continue to write daily to the best of my ability.As i explained in my former post despite the aggressive separation of genders in Saudi Arabia sexual desires never really vanish or even weaken. The brain will begin to crave the second best thing other men who tend to look pretty or more “feminine”.Saudi Arabia and Islam have strict definitions of gender as Mohammed stated “Allah damn men who  try to look like women and women who try to look like men” Hadith Saheh But the desperation is never truly stopped.As early as middle school children begin to explore their sexuality and terms created such as *Hilu* or “sweet looking boy” or “he is my boy” to determine that one particular boy is their target for seduction.

It is not a secret that the punishment for Homosexual behavior is death in Saudi Arabia but even that does not deter those youth from such acts.As long as everybody keeps it a secret nobody gets hurt and everybody gets what they want the “sweet looking boy” tends to usually be of fair skin with more beauty enhanced features with less facial hair the younger the better.He gets rewards such as respect and admiration and the support and defense of those who “want” him.This secret net work for boyfriend/boyfriend remains throughout middle school and high school and everyone in Saudi Arabia is in serious denial about it.I remember the story about two of my coworkers who were so upset at the claims of the show “Thick Red Line” which talks about controversial issues regarding this issue and they viciously deny that homosexuality is a serious affair with the Saudi youth Even when Ironically just 3 weeks ago before the show talked about the episode they invited me to have sex with a Syrian young man they seduced.The level of self delusion those people can have is horrifying.

As people get older and began to reach their mid 20s they begin to take one of three routes.They begin to take regular trips to Bahrain for prostitution, i may talk about Bahrain later regarding this affair.The other group find marriage as soon as possible and risk taking a huge financial disadvantage that would harm their wealth or the minority become true boy lovers seeking more sexual intimacy in secret with other young men the younger the better seducing them with promises of excitement thrill and adventure.As for true Homosexuals It is hard for them to even exist let alone be acknowledged and tend to end up with the third group as they grow older. 

As i have explained before it is not the problem that people predictably began to seek sexual alternatives when healthy sexual conduct is banned and criminalized.The real problem come from the level of self delusion of even admitting that there is a problem. For most of society it is *say its bad and shut up* most effectively.But those who do not understand sex or sexuality or those who wish to manipulate sex and sexuality for their benefit,are threatened with it.Thus try to use both social shame and social manipulation of both culture and religion to not honestly discuss the issue and find out its true source.Religious Repression of basic human instincts.

In the next post as i promised i will discuss marriage and how it works.

Wa Asalam Alikum 

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